"Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus"
Men
and women are completely different in almost every aspect, like with
matters of viewing and dealing with issues, thought process, acting and
reacting, as well as many other topics. Women have wants from men that
are simple, like time, attention, and affection. The same is true for
men, and their wants from women. The wants and needs that men and women
have are different, but the goal or outcome is the same.
I have noticed that there is one facet that men and women do generally agree on: their wants from the opposite sex. But when broken down, their wants from women are on a totally different level and exactly the opposite, while focusing on what men enjoy doing. Men want the opposite of what women because they are the "other half" that makes a women whole, and vice versa. This creates a
balance
for logical thinking as well as emotional decision making. Men are able
to see the whole picture, usually with an unbiased and rational
opinion. Women tend to involve emotions as well as other factors when
making a decision. This hub explains what men want most from women, and
it is the exact opposite of what women want but just the same. And it
may even be surprising what is and is not on my list!
I have noticed that there is one facet that men and women do generally agree on: their wants from the opposite sex. But when broken down, their wants from women are on a totally different level and exactly the opposite, while focusing on what men enjoy doing. Men want the opposite of what women because they are the "other half" that makes a women whole, and vice versa. This creates a
balance
for logical thinking as well as emotional decision making. Men are able
to see the whole picture, usually with an unbiased and rational
opinion. Women tend to involve emotions as well as other factors when
making a decision. This hub explains what men want most from women, and
it is the exact opposite of what women want but just the same. And it
may even be surprising what is and is not on my list!Disclaimer
I am not saying that this is always the case with men and I am not stereotyping
men and or women in any way. Some men may not agree with my list, and
some women may object also. Not every man and or every women are the
same and will all have different opinions that are respected.
What Do Men Want From Women?
The answer is obvious! All men want
is to be happy and respected and loved, just like women do, while
focusing on what men enjoy doing. What men want most from women is not
that complicated to satisfy or difficult to solve, but is just the exact
opposite of what women want most from men. While men are taking the
time to give women what they really want, like cuddling and talking,
women should also be taking the time to give the men what they really
want, like not talking and just chilling on the couch together. This
will cause team work and the relationship will increase in strength,
without even doing much but making the other person happy.
This hub is a list of what men what most from women, done by a woman, but through a man's perspective. The list is compiled of thoughts from my husband and knowledge from other hubs based on men and their habits. This list may not be accurate for all men, as every man, woman, or person is not the same. This is just an opinion and many people may even agree.
This hub is a list of what men what most from women, done by a woman, but through a man's perspective. The list is compiled of thoughts from my husband and knowledge from other hubs based on men and their habits. This list may not be accurate for all men, as every man, woman, or person is not the same. This is just an opinion and many people may even agree.
1. No Nagging!! This includes complaining or being bossy!
This goes for every woman because we have all done it at one time or another!! Men really don't like to hear women continuously nagging or being bossy about projects, obligations, or other responsibilities and especially when they come home after working hard all day. Women think it's just trying to get things done but men will always take it as nagging and this is their biggest annoyance. Men usually know what is going on and what has to be done, and will procrastinate because that is how they are made, and will accomplish the task with perfection, but on their own sweet time. Complaining and or nagging only makes men feel annoyed, bothered, unappreciated, and unloved so then they do not want to do what is being asked of them. A man wants to hear that his woman loves him and is happy. Then in return, he will be more willing to do what is being asked of him because he will know that you appreciate it. This concept may need extra patience, and with practice, but it can be done. The ending results are amazing. Once the negative outlook and responses are removed from the relationship, it will work more smoothly and your man won't be in such a bad mood all of the time.
This goes for every woman because we have all done it at one time or another!! Men really don't like to hear women continuously nagging or being bossy about projects, obligations, or other responsibilities and especially when they come home after working hard all day. Women think it's just trying to get things done but men will always take it as nagging and this is their biggest annoyance. Men usually know what is going on and what has to be done, and will procrastinate because that is how they are made, and will accomplish the task with perfection, but on their own sweet time. Complaining and or nagging only makes men feel annoyed, bothered, unappreciated, and unloved so then they do not want to do what is being asked of them. A man wants to hear that his woman loves him and is happy. Then in return, he will be more willing to do what is being asked of him because he will know that you appreciate it. This concept may need extra patience, and with practice, but it can be done. The ending results are amazing. Once the negative outlook and responses are removed from the relationship, it will work more smoothly and your man won't be in such a bad mood all of the time.
2. Sex
Believe it or not, men actually prefer this second to no nagging. If women are not nagging, then the men they love will be more attracted to them. Men are not attracted to and turned on by women who are being bossy or complaining about some thing. Men are able to be committed, but their woman should keep them happy so they do not stray.Try dressing up for your man in some thing cute and sexy to keep him entertained. Most men won't cheat if they are not being nagged to death and kept happy at home.
Believe it or not, men actually prefer this second to no nagging. If women are not nagging, then the men they love will be more attracted to them. Men are not attracted to and turned on by women who are being bossy or complaining about some thing. Men are able to be committed, but their woman should keep them happy so they do not stray.Try dressing up for your man in some thing cute and sexy to keep him entertained. Most men won't cheat if they are not being nagged to death and kept happy at home.
3. Food
Men enjoy eating good food and love the women who good cook for them. A married man loves coming home after working hard all day long, to a clean house and a hot home-cooked meal ready with his dear family. Some men may even enjoy take-out or fast food every night, as long as their woman feeds them when ever they are hungry. This is a high priority to men and comes in close behind number 3 because that is the order is usually goes in during relationships. Even making and packing your man's lunch can help him have a great day at work so he can return in a better mood. Food is one of the fastest and best ways to a man's heart, or so the old saying goes. After the first three things are accomplished (no nagging, sex, and food), usually men are ready to do what ever task or objective you may have for them.
Men enjoy eating good food and love the women who good cook for them. A married man loves coming home after working hard all day long, to a clean house and a hot home-cooked meal ready with his dear family. Some men may even enjoy take-out or fast food every night, as long as their woman feeds them when ever they are hungry. This is a high priority to men and comes in close behind number 3 because that is the order is usually goes in during relationships. Even making and packing your man's lunch can help him have a great day at work so he can return in a better mood. Food is one of the fastest and best ways to a man's heart, or so the old saying goes. After the first three things are accomplished (no nagging, sex, and food), usually men are ready to do what ever task or objective you may have for them.
4. Respect
Just like women, men want to be respected for their opinions, thoughts, and decisions at all times. They want to feel respected for all of the hard work that they do and for all of the household responsibilities they manage. This includes listening when they express themselves and respecting what they have to say, even if you don't agree with it. Men who do offer the same respect for women should get that same respect back in return without there ever being any question. Obviously this is not true for any man who is disrespectful to any woman. This may be hard, and is tough for myself at times, but this is how we should treat one another, man or woman. Respecting a man also shows that you respect yourself as a woman, which is more attractive to men than women who have no respect at all, for themselves or any one else. As soon as men notice that they are being respected, women get much more respect in return. This topic is a two-way road.
Just like women, men want to be respected for their opinions, thoughts, and decisions at all times. They want to feel respected for all of the hard work that they do and for all of the household responsibilities they manage. This includes listening when they express themselves and respecting what they have to say, even if you don't agree with it. Men who do offer the same respect for women should get that same respect back in return without there ever being any question. Obviously this is not true for any man who is disrespectful to any woman. This may be hard, and is tough for myself at times, but this is how we should treat one another, man or woman. Respecting a man also shows that you respect yourself as a woman, which is more attractive to men than women who have no respect at all, for themselves or any one else. As soon as men notice that they are being respected, women get much more respect in return. This topic is a two-way road.
5. Appreciation
Just like women, men like to feel appreciated for the goals and obligations that they accomplish and all of the hard work that they do every day. One of the things men want most from women is to feel more appreciated by them and for the things they do, especially when they went out of their way to do some thing nice for the woman they love. Saying appreciative comments is a great way to show thanks for the hard work he puts in every day. Giving your man extra hugs and kisses is always a good start to show how appreciative you are of him and what he does. This appreciation also encourages and motivates men to do more good things, which creates a circle of happiness working together within the relationship. Some men believe that appreciation and respect go hand-in-hand, but both goals should not be left unchecked. Men enjoy feeling appreciated because it will make them want to do more nice things for the woman they love.
Just like women, men like to feel appreciated for the goals and obligations that they accomplish and all of the hard work that they do every day. One of the things men want most from women is to feel more appreciated by them and for the things they do, especially when they went out of their way to do some thing nice for the woman they love. Saying appreciative comments is a great way to show thanks for the hard work he puts in every day. Giving your man extra hugs and kisses is always a good start to show how appreciative you are of him and what he does. This appreciation also encourages and motivates men to do more good things, which creates a circle of happiness working together within the relationship. Some men believe that appreciation and respect go hand-in-hand, but both goals should not be left unchecked. Men enjoy feeling appreciated because it will make them want to do more nice things for the woman they love.
6. A Smile
Believe it or not again, but men like to see women smile because it is a sign of happiness that they created and or made possible for their woman. Men will see their end result of all their hard work, and let's them know that they have done their job as a husband or boyfriend and even as a person. This makes men feel important and needed because men like to take care of women and to make women happy for many different reasons, like love. Plus men do not like women being upset and acting all overly emotional. Many men can't stand when women cry. A man can make a woman very happy, and that man should be able to see it, feel it, and know it. A smile to a man can say a million words, starting with 'I am happy with us' and 'I love you'.
Believe it or not again, but men like to see women smile because it is a sign of happiness that they created and or made possible for their woman. Men will see their end result of all their hard work, and let's them know that they have done their job as a husband or boyfriend and even as a person. This makes men feel important and needed because men like to take care of women and to make women happy for many different reasons, like love. Plus men do not like women being upset and acting all overly emotional. Many men can't stand when women cry. A man can make a woman very happy, and that man should be able to see it, feel it, and know it. A smile to a man can say a million words, starting with 'I am happy with us' and 'I love you'.
7. Affection
Believe it or not, but men do want affection from women, just in a more simple way. This is not a high priority to men but they are not getting it at all. Like holding his hand and hugging him for no reason at all. Even putting your arm around your man and kissing him for no reason at all every once in awhile. It's really the small and simple things that make a difference to men also, but men need to feel it more often! Try getting creative and playing with his hair, each man enjoys his own simple way of affection. Just be sure not to overdo this one because many men enjoy some affection, but not all of the time and not too mushy either.
FOLLOW THE RULES AND WIN THE GAME!!!!!!
Believe it or not, but men do want affection from women, just in a more simple way. This is not a high priority to men but they are not getting it at all. Like holding his hand and hugging him for no reason at all. Even putting your arm around your man and kissing him for no reason at all every once in awhile. It's really the small and simple things that make a difference to men also, but men need to feel it more often! Try getting creative and playing with his hair, each man enjoys his own simple way of affection. Just be sure not to overdo this one because many men enjoy some affection, but not all of the time and not too mushy either.
FOLLOW THE RULES AND WIN THE GAME!!!!!!
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